If that’s looping in your head, you’re far from alone. For many 6- and 7-figure online business owners running courses, memberships, digital products, or high-level services, “too busy” stops being a phase and starts blocking real growth.
The good news? It’s fixable—and it often starts with a brutally honest look at your to-do list.
Grab your list (or open it), and walk through these four questions. They’re straightforward, but they create real breathing room.
A lot of overwhelm comes from tasks that aren’t truly urgent—or necessary at all.
As an OBM, one of the first things I do with clients is build a realistic plan with timelines. Suddenly, the “everything now” pressure lifts.
After this, you’ll have a short list of true near-term priorities—and everything else parked where it belongs.
This one’s tough for most owners. We default to “I’ll handle it” because we’re capable—and used to being the one who makes things happen. But that’s when things start slipping. Run through your trimmed list: Could someone else do this?
Common hurdles (and truths):
One owner put it this way: “In my mind, the OBM is everything I am not doing well.” Another: “My Virtual Assistant is really amazing… but there isn’t anyone on our team who is the first mate, or mapping out the plan beyond the day-to-day tasks.”
I help clients ‘download’ their brain into documented processes so delegation feels confident and safe. The goal? Spot what could come off your plate—even if it’s just planning for it. That creates light at the end of the tunnel.
(If your name is still beside every task after this, an outside perspective often reveals blind spots.)
Now protect time for what’s left.
Two of my go-to’s:
These small shifts reclaim hours fast.
If you’re still underwater, own it early.
A simple script: “Hey, I got overcommitted here—that’s on me. I won’t have X to you until [new date], just wanted to flag it.“
It feels uncomfortable, but transparency builds respect. People are often flexible with advance notice—and it’s always better than surprises.
Then? Rinse and repeat.
The beauty of these 4 questions is that you can use them over and again. Work through this process every time you find yourself too busy, and ideally overtime you won’t need to anymore.
If you are looking to get off the hamster wheel of always being ‘too busy’ – let’s talk. As an OBM this is one of my specialty areas and I’d be happy to hop on a call with you to identify 5 things that could come off your plate immediately.
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